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ActiveRain Etiquette Dilemma

ActiveRain Etiquette Dilemma

ActiveRain ,Etiquette ,Dilemma, John McCormack, Realtor, Albuquerque Homes RealtyI hope you understand my ActiveRain etiquette dilemma.  Personally I have always believed  it is very import to reply to comments left on my posts.  It’s like having a two sided conversation and a way to acknowledge that the comments have been read.  In the past you know I typically responded to each comment.  I always read each and every comment on every single post and greatly appreciate them all.  With the real estate tides turning and being more on the run with business I have found myself in an ActiveRain etiquette dilemma.  There just doesn’t seem to be enough hours in the day.  If you know me, you also know I try to comment on each of your posts daily because I really enjoy seeing what you’re doing and what your saying in the Rain.  I’m not one to just get in my 10 and call it good.  Please don’t think I’m ignoring your comments, I’m not.  I just figure it’s better to read and comment on your posts and give you the glory than using that same time to comment back.   I’m betting I’m not the only one having this ActiveRain etiquette dilemma but I wanted you to understand my reasons.  If this troubles you please let me know so I can make adjustments to my protocol.        

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Comments

John, I know I am having troubles keeping up with comments within a post, but ALWAYS return a comment even if it takes a week to do so!     

Posted by Joan Cox, Denver Real Estate-720-231-6373 (Metro Brokers - House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate) about 1 year ago

John, you are the Commenter Extraordinaire - you are often the first one to comment on posts and many blogs that I eventually get to I see your cheery words posted somewhere in the list above. I think it is wonderful that you head out to comment on the posts of others when time gets tight - that's a great way to show appreciation!

I feel very guilty when I take some time off from AR and I get those AR notification emails about kind folks commenting on my blog - but I know that I'll get back to it (and the gracious commenters) in time - and we know you will too!  Very glad to hear business is so good for you - and don't worry, we all understand!

Posted by Karen Hawkins, MBA - Langley & Surrey, BC (Royal Pro Real Estate Network) about 1 year ago

John -- you have to do what feels right for you and fits best your schedule.   As for etiquette -- I don't think anyone who knows you on AR has anything but the highest opinion of you and your generous manner of communication.      

Posted by Michael Jacobs, Pasadena CA/SanGabriel Valley Realtor, 818.516.4393 cell (Coldwell Banker Residential Real Estate) about 1 year ago

Good Morning John

Thanks for the post. I understand your concern and have been guilty of reading a blog and just thanking the author for their contribution.

Posted by Patrick White (Home Driven Realty, Inc) about 1 year ago

Hi John...Thanks for sharing your thoughts. We have been guilty not responding to comments and it is something we are working hard on. You're right, there is only so much time in a day to respond, but it is nice to acknowledge a person's comments. Cheers, Ryan

Posted by Ryan & Sheri MacDonald Calgary Home Team (Re/Max First) about 1 year ago

It is quite a dilemna, trying to stay in contact, giving feedback, and balancing that with a busy schedule. Thanks for writing this post, I believe it is something that many can associate with.

Posted by Tom Arstingstall - Dry Rot, Water Damage General Contractor in Sacramento (Dry Rot and Water Damage www.tromlerconstruction.com ) about 1 year ago

I have had issues with this, too, especially after a feature.  I always start with the last comment first.  And, I think my system is broken. 

There are some people it takes forever to get back to.  I think I will try your system for a while.  Thanks, John.

Posted by Ron Marshall (Marshall Enterprises) about 1 year ago

You, of all people have no need to apologize for your etiquette "in the Rain"..............you are probably one of the kindest and most gracious friends I have made here and a very faithful follower of your subscribers.  At times it's difficult for all of us to respond to each comment.  Many times, I leave a "blanket" response on many of my posts and I hope that everyone knows that I've read each comment made.  Business first my friend................  

Posted by Roger D. Mucci Lake, Cuyahoga and Geauga Counties (Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092) about 1 year ago

No...you are not the only one w/ that dilemma.  I can't keep up either...not nearly.  It's overwhelming and at times I just need to give up.  You are doing a way better job at this than I am.

Posted by Westchester Flooring - Debbie Gartner -Hardwood Floors Carpet Tile Refinish - (Floor Coverings International Westchester NY & Stamford CT) about 1 year ago

John rather than not reply to comments on our own post, which some might find offensive in some way, why don't you NOT post on some days and just comment on other people's post (giving them the glory as you say) and thereby removing yourself of the dilemma not to respond to comments on your own post.   That would make more sense to me than posting and not responding.

Posted by Charita Cadenhead, Your Birmingham, AL Realtor® of Choice (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago

John, Maybe just a generic "thanks everyone I appreciate your comments, I'm off commenting elsewhere" would help?  I know your practice so it doesn't bother me not to see a response on your posts, in other cases people might not understand.  Personally I've given up on intentionally trying to reciprocate every comment.  I just can't fit in that much reading daily, so my compromise is to respond to every comment on our posts and have a sprinkling of comments elsewhere, although not nearly as prolific as you are.

Posted by Liz and Bill Spear RE/MAX Elite Warren County Ohio: Cincinnati to Dayton (513.265.3004 www.LizTour.com) about 1 year ago

Good morning, John.  This is a timely topic because many of us have the same problem.  I guess this is a good problem but some feelings may be hurt when there is no individual response to their comments.

I always appreciate your comments and understand that I might not hear from you on very busy days.

Have an outstanding week, with your camera in hand.

Posted by Roy Kelley, Montgomery County, MD Homes For Sale (Roy Kelley and RE/MAX Realty Group) about 1 year ago

I have barely been able to post a blog lately and I have always struggled with the return comments.  

Posted by Chuck Carstensen (RE/MAX Results) about 1 year ago

Hi John, Although we try to keep up with comments, it's way too time consuming. We do try to reciprocate to those who visit us, but sometimes on our site instead of answering all the comments we either just thank everyone for visiting or just leave it alone and post another blog!

Posted by Larry(Lawrence)& Sheila Agranoff,Realtor Long Island Homes & Condos~631-805-4400 (Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr,Plainview NY 11803) about 1 year ago

John, I think we are all in the same boat.  I find that there are some days where I just can't get it done.

Posted by Kathy Sheehan (Prospect Mortgage) about 1 year ago

Good morning John. I have noticed that you reply is not there but I get it, and really appreciate your gracious style and ever present comments left for me. Business is what allows us to eat: not to worry. No one makes a comment more reliably than you do and that is amazing.

Posted by Sheila Anderson The Real Estate Whisperer (Referral Group Incorporated) about 1 year ago

I do notice you tend to comment on  our posts before responding to comments. It's just your way! And that's ok. We all know that people read their comments. I have let a couple posts get away from me and it's just hard to respond to them all. I think today though I will tackle the responses on my negative SEO post.. there are a lot and I have neglected them. Keep up the good work, John!

Posted by Tammy Emineth (Personal SEO - Website SEO and Real Estate Marketing) about 1 year ago

John, it makes sense that is all i can say...our first work and obligation is to our business.

Posted by Waterfront RI Homes for Sale | Rhode Island Coastal Real Estate Agent (Phillips Post Road Realty -Waterfront homes, Short Sales) about 1 year ago

I know what you mean. I'm still playing catch up from vacation! Sometimes.... I just have to clear the slate and start over!! 

Posted by Joni Staples ♥ (936) 650-9017 (Your Huntsville and Lake Livingston REALTOR®) about 1 year ago

If this bothers some folks, they have way too much time on THEIR hands.  You're doing great John.  Keep up the encouragement and good words.  No worries here my friend.  

Posted by Amanda and Jared Christiansen Fort Wayne Real Estate (Century 21 Bradley ) about 1 year ago

John.  The good news is you are doing lots of business.  The sad news for me is that you may not be as busy on AR but I FULLY understand and will love every comment that I see coming from you and every post that you write.  Thanks for the heads up.

Posted by Valerie Zinger (House Proud Ottawa-Ontario-Canada) about 1 year ago

I am in the same boat. Sometimes I find myself playing cat up but that is the nature of the demands on our time.  Most of us understand that all too well.

Posted by Gary L Waters PLLC- Broker Associate Realtor® Melbourne Viera Rockledge FL (Serving Brevard Realty, Merritt Island) about 1 year ago

John, we understand, in fact in the past we blogged on this very same dilemma. It is tough commenting on everyone's blog, returning comments on your own blog, blogging and of course working! We like the Blitz's idea but as Roger said business first our friend, business first.  Now go 'break a leg' in the Q!

Posted by Brampton Homes For Sale | Brampton Real Estate (We have a home for you! Call Us! RE/MAX Realty Services Inc.) about 1 year ago

All I can say John.. is that this post has an enormous amount of comments here now.. and you do not need to respond to all of them! It appears that those that are busy know where you area coming from. You are the true AR gentleman and have been inspiration to the process of commenting for newbies like me! Of course business comes first .. without it AR is nothing. YAY for being busy and having so many clients that you have no time for this. It's all good. Your style of AR etiquette is much to be appreciated. Now go off and sell some more houses!!

Posted by Homes for Sale Newburgh NY | Newburgh NY Real Estate Agent about 1 year ago

Sometimes John I reply directly to the commentor. And then I think , Oh this does not show up on my posts maybe I should have replied there. But then I think what if the person does not go back in and look at my reply. So I have my own dilemna too

Posted by Charlie Ragonesi Big Canoe homes Big Canoe, Jasper, North Georgia Pros (AllMountainRealty.com) about 1 year ago

Hi John, no need to feel guilty-you do an incredible job of following up and the fact that this is on your radar, speaks volumes about your character.  I too follow up on comments but believe me, we are in the minority!

Posted by Joanna Cohlan, Interior Design, Decorating & Staging Westchester County (Fresh Eyes For Your Home) about 1 year ago

Good morning John....Really? Someone is COMPLAINING or have an issue because YOU don't comment?....I'm reblogging and adding my 2 cents.

Posted by Cheryl Thomson, Real Estate in Northern Virginia, REALTOR®, U.S. Army (Retired) (Buyers Advantage Real Estate Corp. (c: 703.216.5635)) about 1 year ago

When push comes to shove, time on Active Rain seems to be the first thing to suffer...at least for me.  We all understand!

Posted by Kathryn Maguire Serving Chesapeake, Norfolk, VA Beach (GreatNorfolkHomes.com (757) 560-0881) about 1 year ago

From my part John. . if I need a direct repsonse from you. .I'll send you an email. . no sweat

Posted by Fernando Herboso www.ReallyNiceHomes.com Herboso & Associates | MD & VA - (Maxus Realty Group - Broker 301-246-0001) about 1 year ago

Ditto and ditto. It's a dilemma, but I agree, I'd rather comment on someone else's blog. I don't think anyone holds you responsible John - there are a few who don't bother to repay comments - ever -and they generally lose me. I feel you always do a great job...

There are times when a dialog can only take place when the blog writer partcipates in the comments, and I know you know the posts where that is important. So, now sweat, enjoy your business success. :)

Posted by Debb Janes~Realtor® Camas, Washington EcoBroker (The Carl Group, LLC) about 1 year ago

John you are turning back into a newbie. At some point with your popularity and diligence with your readers and NORMAL LIFE you will run into this dilemma. Courtesy, follow-up vs. TIME CRUNCH with other things. You are in a guilt phase. You will get over it. Think of a featured post with 50 to 100 comments. If you have all day to blog you respond. Who has all day to blog? You will get over this guilt trip John and land in moderation eventually and you are not there yet internally with this.

Posted by Gary Woltal - Assoc. Broker REALTOR® SFR Dallas Ft. Worth (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago

John I do not think any one can fault you. Every monring i try and start my day reading my favorite blogs such as yours, l find if i wait until later in the day i get so busy i just do not have any time to even get on AR. I think the personal nature of your comments is what makes me look forward to them, it is more than just good post and moving on to the next. keep up the great work, no one can fault you thats for sure. Have a great Tuesday

Posted by Scott Godzyk, One of Manchester NH's Leading Agents (Godzyk Real Estate Services) about 1 year ago

John...

I think of you as the ultimate AR Ambassador, and you have developed more relationships faster than anyone else I have ever seen on the platform.

But it really is a double-edged sword. There is a "tipping" point where it is impossible to "maintain" the balance. There came a point where I realized that it was impossible to keep up, so now I just do the very best I can as time allows.

Featured in the Group "Whacked!!!

Posted by Richard Weisser (Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate Metro Brokers) about 1 year ago

It's not practical to reply back once the post is featured. I use an all-encompassing "Thanks for the comments folks" or something along those lines. All the best!

Posted by Doug Rogers- Your Pineville Louisiana Agent (Century 21 Millennium) about 1 year ago

John,

I too try my best to respond to all comments left on my posts.....then follow up w/a comment on a post of theirs as well. 

Posted by Dan Brudnok-REALTOR,e-PRO,ABR,GREEN,CSP Chester County RE Professional (Keller Williams RE- Exton - PA License Number #RS225179L ) about 1 year ago

John- some days I just have to go on and say thanks to everyone. But I do catch up and comment on them within a day or so. Especially when we are away for a day or two. I think everyone understands that we sometimes get really busy and can't keep up. If they love you, they will forgive you.

Posted by Toni Weidman- ReMax New Dimensions - Homes for Sale (New Port Richey-Trinity-Tarpon Springs-Holiday-Hudson) about 1 year ago
John, I think we can all relate to this dilemma and have experienced it at one time or another. I'm sur eventually you'll catch up! All the best!
Posted by Silvia Dukes PA,REALTOR®,CIPS,CRS,Green, Spring Hill FL Homes for Sale (Tropic Shores Realty - Ich spreche Deutsch!) about 1 year ago

No worries, John.  I'm sure even though your time is limited you will still find the time because that's just the type of person you are.  Thanks for sharing!

Posted by Dylan Taft - Ulster County Area Consultant (Dylan Taft Broker/Owner Taft Street Realty, Inc.) about 1 year ago

I think we need to let this one go--I've been super busy, in part AR is to blame (big smile and a wink) and I've fallen far behind on my commenting and responding to comments.  I refuse to feel guilty about the ROI from time already invested in my fabulous blogging career!  We know business comes in waves and there will be a slow week or two and I shall devote more time to AR once again.  Today however, I have two listings appointments to prepare for and a show list to confirm--instead of two hours devoted to AR this one is limited to 20 minutes.

Posted by Norma Toering Palos Verdes Homes in Los Angeles Area (REMAX Estate Properties Broker Associate Lic# 01147470) about 1 year ago

John, I have always enjoyed reading your posts and your return comments, and I have always appreciated you visiting my blog.  With the market shifting back in a positive direction in many areas around the country, trying to find time for business, blogging, and commenting will become more of a dilemma for many AR members. 

Just do what you can when you are able!   Everyone realizes that you are a genuine person and will understand that you now have time constraints.  Look how understanding your followers are with the above comments! 

Posted by Bruce Walter (Keller Williams Realty Lafayette/West Lafayette, Indiana) about 1 year ago

John  I understand your point.  It has always impressed me that you comment on my posts shortly after I comment on yours.  Congrats on the feature

Posted by Karen Kruschka - Prince William, Fairfax ,Stafford County VA Real Estate Service (RE/MAX Olympic Realty) about 1 year ago

Funny you bring this up, John.  I've been noticing that more and more often, commenting is on the "slide".  Not as frequent and in some instances ... totally left undone.  Personally, I've attributed it to the market getting healthier.  As you point out, you just have so much time in the day .. and you must have priorities too.  Now, would I rather have a comment ... or feel like the housing market is keeping us all busier???  I think you know the answer to that one ...

Gene

Posted by Gene Mundt Mortgage Lender Chicagoland Mortgage Lending (www.genemundt.com) about 1 year ago

John (QMan) - Congrats on the Feature.  You have been such an uplifting addition to ActiveRain so no apologies necessary.  I think it's been hard for everyone to try to do all of the AR Etiquette niceties.  Work is #1... that's why we're here...or at least part of why we're here.  I sometimes try to comment first on those who comment on my post, and also comment on the posts in my subscription list.  We're just happy to see your smiling face!

Posted by Kathy Streib-Home Stager-Palm Bch County South Florida - 561-914-6224 (Room Service Home Staging) about 1 year ago

Congrats on the feature John.

Posted by Charita Cadenhead, Your Birmingham, AL Realtor® of Choice (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago

John - No one could ever think that you are purposely ignoring the AR community:)   I'm happy that you are busy!

Posted by Pam Miller/Broker Associate Pearland/Friendswood (Realty Associates) about 1 year ago

I really don't expect a reply on comments ( I truly believe the majority feel this way), time is all we have and just reading them consumes a lot of time. 

It's like receiving a Thank You card and then responding to say thank you for the thank you card, now do they respond and say thank you for responding to my thank you card, somewhere it needs to stop.

Have A Great Day!

Posted by DORIS FREEMAN Realtor Madison-Gibson-Crockett (RE/MAX REALTY SOURCE) about 1 year ago

So that's where you've been - working! Isn't it great; see you later in the Rain.

Posted by Teral McDowell, Realtor® Plano Real Estate (KW® Central-Murphy) about 1 year ago

I used to return comment for comment and stop by and see my favorite bloggers every day, but like you, I find it's impossible to do if you need to actually get out and work.  I'm not taking any offense.  :)

Posted by Chris Ann Cleland, Associate Broker, Northern VA (Long & Foster REALTORS®, Gainesville, VA) about 1 year ago

I totally understand, as I've always tried to do the same, and find myself busier than usual.  It takes some effort, but I think if you're a little lax during busy season... people wil understand and adjust.

Major kudos for at least trying and recognizing that it's part of a two-way-conversation.

Posted by Alan May, Coldwell Banker Realtor® Evanston, Illinois & Northern Suburbs (847.425.3779 almay@aol.com) about 1 year ago

I love seeing your comments on my posts, and I appreciate every one of them.  I also realize that you spend a fair amount of time each day reading and commenting on many other posts.  Although I haven't been here long, I feel that the way in which you acknowledge, support, befriend, and connect with others is unmatched.  Personally, that means more to me than your response to one of my comments.

Have a beautiful day, John!

Posted by Carie Shapiro (Managing Broker-IL;Pre-License Instructor-IL; Broker-TX) about 1 year ago

John,

Congrats as your blog already is featured by the time I read it. Good blog by the way and you hit a home run with your dilemma issue.

All of us have serious time issues. I already do not have time to write reply comments to every comment on my blogs. I try to make sure I go to, everyone who comments on my blog, blogs and comment back. This is the way I can sort of manage the time issue. Sometimes we all have too much on our plate. If this happend just write a quick blog saying you are buried and I will get to everyone sometime soon.

Posted by Robert Gilbert(Bob) Realtor, CPA, MBA, Katy TX Real Estate Expert -281-904-6772 (PRUDENTIAL ANDERSON PROPERTIES) about 1 year ago

Hi John, I think you do a great job, no matter how you do it. Sometimes comments just repeat what you have already stated in the blog, or  reinforce what you have already said, so to comment on that would be redundant. Only sometimes do comments open the door to something else, you re doing great!

Posted by Sandy Acevedo, RE/MAX Masters Inland Empire Homes for Sale (951-290-8588) about 1 year ago

John, I've always thought how do you find the time to comment on so many posts.  I may not comment on every comment left on my posts as sometimes I thank everybody for stopping by.  However, I do eventually return the favor by posting a comment on their posts/

Posted by Rebecca Gaujot, Lewisburg WV Real Estate, Greenbrier Cty (Rebecca Gaujot, & Coldwell Banker Stuart & Watts Real Estate) about 1 year ago

I think the way you deal with commenting is great and makes sense.  Many times when I leave comments on a post of interest to me I like to go back and read what thoughts others have on the subject matter.  Quite often posts and others thoughts can lead me to look at a situation in a different way.  Congrats on the Feature and well deserved.

Sue of Robin and Sue

Posted by Robin & Sue REALTORs® Hendersonville & Western NC Real Estate (Coldwell Banker King) about 1 year ago

John, I agree, things are getting very busy and we have to take care of the essentials to our business, our clients and our agents, I have found that although I am able to check in daily at Ar I only have 3-4 days a week where I can sit down and comment, it is tough enough to find thew time to blog and read other posts.

We understand.

Posted by John Marshall - Low-Maintenance Golf Living! (John Marshall ) about 1 year ago

Ditto! I feel guilty when I can't comment on my comments; however, I always try to make up for it.

We are all thankfully busy when we can't reply - I think we all get it.

Posted by Patricia Feager (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago

Business comes first. 

I personally think a lot of AR comments are not necessary but just done because we feel an obligation rather than because we have something to say about the topic of the post.  Or you could call it etiquette.  Or comment tag. The largest real estate network in the world is not a game of tag, but you can see that some members play "tag you are it" when they drop off their great post comment.  I could care less about comments on my hyperlocal content so do not encourage it by visiting a blog to say something to let the blogger know we read the post.

Business is always more important than commenting x number of times a day, or because someone commented on your blog. I think most people understand that.

Posted by Maureen McCabe Columbus Ohio real estate (HER Realtors) about 1 year ago

As with any virtual world, the importation of comments and replies are always subjective.

Good post.

Posted by Anthony Daniels- SF Bay Area REO Specialist (Coldwell Banker) about 1 year ago

Roger - I decided long ago the same thing. There are only so many hours in a day and if I were to post, comment back to everyone on my blog, then go comment on my friend's posts, look for interesting new posts and go back and check all the post I commented on to see if the member replied, I'd have no time to do my job - that would take all day! I think it's great that we collectively are all getting busier and it's a great sign. Do what you can, but work comes first. IMHO I don't think most people come back to see if you commented back or not - who has the time?! You do amazing networking on Active Rain - no need to worry about a thing! Have a great day!

Posted by Kristine Ginsberg Morris County, NJ Stager (Morris County, NJ: Elite Staging and Redesign, LLC) about 1 year ago

It is always good when business is good.  We all do our best here in the Rain but as you stated, just not enough hours in the day!  Keep rocking along!  You are a great asset here.

Posted by Paula McDonald, RE/MAX The Woodlands, TX 936-203-0279 (Chevaux Group, PLLC) about 1 year ago

John- I've found it hard to find time to blog and understand where you're coming from. I think anyone that's busy running their business understands. No offense taken here my friend!

Posted by Amanda S. Davidson (Living A Dream Real Estate) about 1 year ago

It is a great pleasure to hear you are very busy!  As long as we are in your thoughts!

Posted by Active Adult Retirement Communities in Arizona, Pamela Smith, Sun City West (Ken Meade Realty) about 1 year ago

It is hard to respond to every comment, especially when the post gets featured.

Posted by Dave Halpern - Louisville Short Sale Expert (Short Sales Professionals of Louisville (502) 664-7827) about 1 year ago

John, I always appreciate seeing you all over active rain spreading your knowledge and good will.  Its good to be busy and if you dont have time to return every comment, people will understand and appreciate the situation..

Posted by Bob Crane (Woodland Management Service) about 1 year ago

John, I think several have already said it but... I do think of you as the Ultimate AR Ambassador!  I have no idea how you do as much as you already do.

I think commenting on someones' blog post probably means more to them than returning a comment for a comment but that's my opinion and others may feel differently.

I'm so happy to hear that business is good and business must come before commenting.

Thanks for all the support you've lent me and so many others here in the Rain!

P.S. Don't comment on this comment.. :-)

 

 

Posted by Nancy Laswick, Scottsdale & Phoenix Area Realtor, EPRO, CDPE, SFR (REALTY ONE GROUP) about 1 year ago
I am aok with this. I like to see the ten spread around to agents because sometimes the comments are as valuable as the posts. But responding back to everyone on your own post is not as high a priority to me when there is not enough time in a Spring Day!
Posted by Cheryl Ritchie Southern Maryland 301-980-7566 (RE/MAX Leading Edge www.GoldenResults.com) about 1 year ago

John, sometimes I will thank commentors as a group when I am short of time.

Posted by Mike Frazier, Dyersburg Tn Real Estate (Carousel Realty of Dyer County) about 1 year ago
P.S. I saw something clever yesterday. The Blogger used me as one of the ten daily comments and after commenting did a BTW or additional sentence that answered my question on his post. I thought that was a good use of time and it answered my question without me remembering to return to his post.
Posted by Cheryl Ritchie Southern Maryland 301-980-7566 (RE/MAX Leading Edge www.GoldenResults.com) about 1 year ago

Go sell something, John.  Don't worry about us.  We will be here to suggest every post you write when you come back.  LOL!

Posted by Suzanne McLaughlin, Wright & Sherburne Counties Realtor (Sabinske & Associates, Inc. (Albertville, St. Michael)) about 1 year ago

Don't worry about it.  I think we all understand how it can be time pressing and it's nothing personal.  Don't adjust anything . . . ;-)

Posted by Carla Muss-Jacobs - Principal Broker/ Owner | Exclusive Buyers Agent | (503-810-7192 | BuyersAgentPortland.com) about 1 year ago

John ~ I don't find that troubling one bit... not one single bit!  You keep on being your good self and sell lots of real estate!  That's what we should be doing... right?  ;)))

Posted by Mel Peterson - The Naked Blogger (Real Estate Cafe LLC) about 1 year ago

John: It can be tough to balance blogging, commenting, selling homes, and having a personal life.  Don't worry about AR, we all get busy and our business has to take priority.

Posted by Homes for Sale in Warner Robins GA | Warner Robins Real Estate Agent (ColdwellBanker SSK Realtors ~ 478.960.8055) about 1 year ago

Frankly John, I think you outsmarted the system by writing a post to everyone about not being able to comment back and then getting it featured! It's like the ultimate response! That way everyone reads your post and feels personally loved without you having to respond back. Pure GENIUS! ;)

Posted by Mary Elizabeth Allen about 1 year ago

You're definitely not the only one, John.  I find I'm commenting more on the run than at my desk.  I've even missed blogging numerous times lately.  So, like you and others, I'll contribute as much as humanly possible and hope everyone understands.  Have a great week!

Posted by Mike Cooper (Winchester Real Estate Sales, Cornerstone Business Group Inc) about 1 year ago

Hi John - We all know you're there when we need you to be. It looks like I'm the 75th comment on this post - it would be insane of you to try and comment back to all of us. Maybe you could try being less friendly, supportive and helpful - then you wouldn't have to worry about etiquette as much.

 

Posted by Dick Greenberg (Elevations Real Estate - Fort Collins, CO) about 1 year ago

John ~ you're a great commenter, blogger, and new Ambassador for AR (CONGRATS on that, by the way!)  Business is really heating up and I find that there isn't enough time to reciprocate comments either, all the time.  Just do what you have time for and don't worry about the rest!! 

Posted by Maureen Bray ~ Home Stager Portland OR ~ Home Staging Portland Oregon (Room Solutions Home Staging Portland OR) about 1 year ago
John, You are very right about people responding to post comments...at first I didn't appreciate the importance of it, but quickly is realized it was the "networking" part of social networking.
Posted by Bob Caldwell—VA Mortgage Specialist and Military Relocation Services (Fitzgerald Financial, a Division of Monarch Bank) about 1 year ago

John -  I hear you.  Wish I had more time to comment on every comment on any one post I write, but sadly I do not.  Besides, I'd rather visit other posts and add to the discussion and maybe learn a thing or two.

Posted by Jason Sardi... Your Agent for Life (Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina) about 1 year ago

John, I have always considered you to be "Quick Draw McGraw" of ActiveRain.  I barely hit the enter key on a comment to your Blog, and your reply to me is already posted.

    But hey, if your trigger finger is getting sore from all that shooting, then it is okay to holster your gun and rest a spell!

 

Posted by Fred Griffin, Tallahassee Florida Real Estate Broker (Fred Griffin Real Estate) about 1 year ago

John,

Congrats on the feature.  I find that as an issue at times...so I have on occasion done a group comment without answering specific ones.  However, some of the comments are so important that they deserve an answer, and somehow I hate to be silent on that particular one.  I am not even sure if people go back and read the comment, but since the blog is a public venue, I would hate to appear impolite, when I am truly appreciative of the time each person takes to write the comment.

So, I am continuing to answer the comments maybe not on the very day, but later. A

Posted by Ron & Alexandra Seigel (Luxury Real Estate Marketing) (ra@napaconsultants.com) about 1 year ago

John, I hear you, and I'm very happy to hear that real estate in Albuquerque is hopping for you! It's natural to have an ebb and flow, and it's not easy for any of us to balance it perfectly. Your candor is, as usual, most appreciated.

Posted by William True - Sarasota Real Estate (True Sarasota Real Estate) about 1 year ago

John, it is nice just to know you care. As I am making a renewed effort to participate in AR, I am checking out the 'vibe' as well as learning a lot.  I was lucky to have one of my first posts featured and I was overwhelmed by the response.  I support the idea of responding to all the comments, not necessarily individually, but definitely checking back and responding every so often. I look at it just like in a regular group conversation, one person does not comment or answer everyone elses remarks.

Posted by Kevin O'Rourke CDPE Miami Short Sale Agent 305-520-9436 (Keller Williams Miami Beach Realty) about 1 year ago

I'm laughing at all these comments you need to decide to reply to or not. I used to only respond to comments and ideas which continued the conversation I started. Not generally directed at any one person...but then I realized that I do check back to see if I get a reply and others do too....so for me, I answer them all.....to a point. On old posts, sometimes I just let them slide after awhile. Time trouble, as you say.

Posted by Karen Fiddler, Broker/Realtor, Mission Viejo (HOM Sotheby's Intl Realty, 949-510-2395) about 1 year ago

John - I struggle to write my blogs and make comments.  It's a big time balancing issue for me .  I admire those that can write their blogs, make comments, respond to comments, and still close on $10+ million in business each year, but I can't do it all.  Your priority should be to take care of business and continue to write your blogs, then if time permits, make comments, and let the rest slide!  : ) 

Posted by Laura Allen Lake Tahoe Homes, Tahoe Real Estate, www.TahoeLauraLuxuryHomes.com (Coldwell Banker, Tahoe City, CA (530) 414-1260) about 1 year ago

That is so polite of you to address this issue. I think it is very tough to address every single comments.  I am usually not offended if my general comment is not acknowleged, unless I asked a question then I would like an answer.

Posted by Eileen Hsu 許小姐 Manhattan NY Real Estate (Douglas Elliman) about 1 year ago

I understand completely - time can be our enemy and friend here in ActiveRain as there never seems to be enough time to do all I want to do.  Excellent post!

Posted by Barbara Hensley, Homes for Sale, Luxury, Acreage, Waterfront, Golf Course,Ranches (RE/MAX Properties, Rockwall, Heath, Royse City, Rowlett, TX) about 1 year ago

I have had the same dilemma and like you try to reply to all the comments as well as visit the blogs of those who stop by mine.

Unfortunatly when we are busy, it is not always possible to do both but I do try...

 

 

Posted by Russell Lewis Broker,CLHMS,GRI (Realty Austin, Austin Texas Real Estate) about 1 year ago

John, quite writing such readable articles! LOL. Yes the tide has turned in the real estate industry, isn't it nice. I for one won't be offended. 

 

Best

Posted by Adrian Willanger-Coldwell Banker Greater Seattle, Wa. (206 909-7536 TheHomeFunnel.com) about 1 year ago

John, I also try to do this but sometimes it's just not possible. I don't think anyone here is going to hold it against you. Business comes first afterall.

Posted by Tammie White Realtor® Franklin TN Homes For Sale (Benchmark Realty, LLC (615) 495-0752 or www.TammieWhite.com) about 1 year ago

John:

Very understandable that you are running out of time.  You don't need to comment on a comment, unless you are asked a question.  Then I think you have a duty to reply to the question.  My two cents.

Posted by Evelyn Kennedy, Alameda Real Estate, Alameda, CA (Gallagher & Lindsey, Alameda, California) about 1 year ago

John, we do the best we can with the time available. We all have an issue with the proper way. Comment to the comment when you can and return the comment to a post so that the balance is maintained. Good Post.

Posted by Ed Silva CDPE, GRI, ABR, Real Estate Agent (RE/MAX Professionals, CT 203-206-0754) about 1 year ago
John-you're the best to care so much about our feelings. If you must go sell another house rather than post a comment on our blogs then we will have to just live with the idea that the dollars are adding up for you in a positive way. Anyway, isn't that why we are in the business? To your success! I hope to hear from you in between deals. Cheers.
Posted by Debbie Reynolds, "The Real Debbie Reynolds" (Prudential PenFed Realty) about 1 year ago

John sell sell sell!  I think a lot of us are in the same  boat this year and it's a good problem to have.  I too usually get back to everyone and it's been hard to do so in a timely manner.  Clients come first. And now you're going to have 93 comments!

Posted by Anna 'Banana' Kruchten - Phoenix Real Estate Broker,CRS 602-380-4886 (Phoenix Property Shoppe) about 1 year ago

I'm sure everyone understands. Sometimes, there is just not much to say about a comment, other than thanks for the comment/compliment, even though we appreciate them so much. I make it a point to especially respond when someone asks me a question, makes a new point or didn't understand/has a problem with something I wrote.

Posted by Gretchen & Mel Ahrens (ColumbiaGorgeFSBO.com) about 1 year ago

WOW...I don't think you have anything to worry about. Just do what you can the rest will take care of itself. There's only so many hours in a day. I'm sitting here with slits for eyes, because I'm so tired tonight.

Posted by Debbie Laity, Cedaredge Land Company, CO (Cedaredge Land Company) about 1 year ago

John - I can't keep up at all right now.  This Spring market is crazy, busy, but who's complaining.  We're all in the same boat.  Let's hope all this activity adds up to commission checks!

Posted by Gail Robinson, REALTOR, e-PRO Fairfield County, CT (William Raveis Real Estate, Southport, CT) about 1 year ago

yes... I understand 100%.  yes... I share this problem right now.  And wow isn't it a good problem to have?  I just make a general comment when I get overwhelmed with work and can't keep up. 

Posted by Tammy Lankford- lake sinclair (706-485-9668) (Tammy Lankford/Broker Lane Realty Lake Sinclair-Central GA) about 1 year ago

John -- I think you are fine.  One way to avoid having to comment on a lot of comments on your blog is to make sure it is NOT featured  LOL

Posted by Joan Whitebook (BHG The Masiello Group) about 1 year ago

John - You bethca John... We have not had anytime as of recently to either post or reply....phewww... but I for one am not complaining about that. Guilty as charged here as we have not had the time either.... but we do try as soon as we get the time to get back into it on a full blown scale.... Best of luck commenting on this one as well.... haaaa... Just kidding .....

Posted by Lisa and Robert Hammerstein (Keller Williams, Bergen County NJ ) about 1 year ago

John, you are one of the most consistent commenters on AR! I always appreciate your comments on my posts, and like you, I don't always have time to comment back. I try to...but sometimes I just can't. Have a great day!

Posted by Rose King / Friendswood / Pearland Homes (UTR, Texas Realtors) about 1 year ago

John this is the same issue many of us face.  I don't take it personal if a comment goes unanswered, it is a real balancing act these days.

Posted by Dutchess County homes for sale | Dutchess County Communities ( JFIVE Home Realty LLC |Columbia,Dutchess,Ulster Counties) about 1 year ago

John, I am late coming over tonight, but I truly understand your dilemma. Even tonight I am exhausted from business all day, and I am not sure I can catch up tonight. Don't even mention trying to get out a blog that I was planning to do also. Commenting takes a lot of time, and like you. I used to comment 20 to 30 times a day. Now, I am struggling just get make 10, and some days I don't even make that much, but I make it a point to eventually come back a respond to all those who did leave me comments on my posts.

Wishing you the BEST, My Friend.

Posted by Jerry Newman,REALTOR®,Texas Agent San Antonio Real Estate & Military Reloc (Green Home Realty, 210-789-4216) about 1 year ago

John - It looks like many are understanding your dilemma.  There are only so many hours in a day.

Posted by Christine Donovan Costa Mesa CA Homes Broker/Attorney 800-610-7253 DRE01267479 (Donovan Blatt Realty) about 1 year ago

John, as long your intentions are good, don't let feelings of guilt come your way for anything having to do with commenting or replying to comments on AR! Life happens for all of us and although I do try to reciprocate and comment back, I get behind sometimes. Even as much as a couple months behind...I admit. :)

Leilani

Posted by Bob & Leilani Souza (Placer County, CA) Foreclosures, Trustee Sales, Lots & Land (Souza Realty/Roseville-Rocklin-Lincoln-Loomis-Granite Bay-CA) about 1 year ago

Whoa Rock Star.  You really ignited the fire. For me featured post can sometimes be the exception in not responding to comments.  Sometimes doing so can take on a life of it's own.  If the "feature haters" only knew how exhausting featured posts can be, I wonder if they would still make a big deal about not being featued (lol).

Great post John Q.

Posted by Charita Cadenhead, Your Birmingham, AL Realtor® of Choice (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago

John, Wow you have a lot of comments to reply to now ; ) You should not feel bad I think if you are activly trying everyone understands. Have a great one.

Posted by Donald Hester NCW Home Inspections, LLC (NCW Home Inspections, LLC) about 1 year ago
I haven't had time to even read any posts. I haven't had time to blog.....but I'd rather be too busy than too prolific. Let's take advantage of the good markets because they don't last forever! Have a great day.
Posted by Doreen Courtright (Prudential Douglas Elliman) about 1 year ago

John,

I try to stop by to reciprocate comments that are left on my posts, but it doesn't always happen.  It's a daily resolution that I make to answer the comments that are on my posts, and I think it's important to at least reply to comments that raise issues or questions or to carry on the conversation. 

TLW, one of my favorite bloggers here from way back, wrote a lot of posts about how important it is to reply to comments, and a lot of us took it for gospel.  But it's not always possible when you are running a business and having a life and planning a wedding (my latest excuse). 

Posted by Patricia Kennedy (Evers & Company Realtors) about 1 year ago

I would never expect someone to respond to EVERY comment, that would just be too burdensome.  I appreciate responses to classes of comments or types of comments, though.

Posted by Kunni Biener about 1 year ago
Gee, I seldom post comments because it seems everyone else manages to convey what thoughts I might have and even ones I wouldn't have. I have never even thought to go back and see if one of my few comments evoked a response...but it just occurred to me that I should, lest I have said something really stupid and need to be corrected. Oh, my!
Posted by Kathy McAlpin (HomeSmart - Arrowhead) about 1 year ago

Understand your 'time dilemna'. Some people I used to put in a comment but what if 30 comments later they never visit your posts?  I'm being a baby I guess but still .....

When you get busy there is nothing wrong with stopping back up to a week .... Sometimes I read the Daily Drop 3 days behind!

Kathy #112:  Always put down your thoughts, they have value even if they are the same as others.

Posted by Lyn Sims - Schaumburg Homes (Schaumburg Real Estate - Northwest Suburbs - RE/MAX Suburban) about 1 year ago

hi John - I find it impossible to respond to comments, especially in this market! We have been waiting a long time to be busy, so I empathize completely. I would rather comment on other people's blogs than say the same thing over and over or try to say it creatively so it doesn't sound like I am saying it over and over.

Posted by Peggy Chirico, REALTOR® 860-748-8900 Hartford & Tolland County Real Estate (Prudential CT Realty) about 1 year ago

John, being busy is good and an excusable reason for not responding to comments.

Posted by Michael Setunsky, Michael's Commercial Northern Virginia Commercial Real Estate (703.831.4028, http://michaelscommercial.com) about 1 year ago

It really does take time to comment on the comments.  I try to get to them all but if work or family calls I will put it off. 

Posted by Elite Home Sales Team Keller Wms. Realty about 1 year ago

John, I always enjoy your posts and you are the last person that needs to apologize on here!

Posted by Mitch Muller (Pro-Stead Realty Charlotte, NC CRS CDPE mitch@prostead.com) about 1 year ago

I was so glad to see this post, I too have the "guilts" but only so much time each day...I try to pop over to the commenters blog and comment on theirs when I can. 

Posted by Rene Brin, Amherst NH homes and Southern NH real estate (Brin Realty/Amherst,Bedford & Nashua Offices) about 1 year ago

You have got to do what you have got to do, my friend. As a prolific and consistent contributor to Active Rain, your contributions are valued. You must set your own priorities and we must respect them.

Posted by John Juarez, DRE 01223788 CDPE, ePRO, SRES (Prudential California Realty) about 1 year ago

John, I'm feeling your pain my friend. You know that I, like you, love the back and forth nature of this forum.

But sadly work is getting in the way!

I love being busy, but not at the expense of the friends and relationships I've built here in the Rain.

Posted by Craig Rutman Raleigh/ Cary/ Apex area Realtor (Helping people in transition) about 1 year ago

John  I am in the same boat.  I use 10 a day as a guideline, not just because it is the point limit, but I just have to only do so much.  I am constantly behind on what I need to be doing with my day.

Posted by Gene Riemenschneider East Contra Costa Home Sales 01492725 (Home Point Real Estate) about 1 year ago

Busy professionals like Fernando, #29 can understand the challenges of time management and therefore are not disturbed because you didn't reply to comments on your post. If someone wanted to get your ear, they could send you an email, couldn't they? No explanation is necessary.

Posted by Kimo Jarrett, Realtor, Huntington Beach, (714) 476-3822, Wiki Wiki Realty (Investments, Commercial, Residential) about 1 year ago

John, blogging and commenting can't become our job, it has to be one arm of our marketing efforts. Clients come first since we owe them a fiduciary. It's good to know that if we have down time, we can write blogs, save them in draft mode and post them at a future date. I think everyone understands.

 

Posted by Karen Crowson, ABR, SRES, Livermore, CA (Alain Pinel Realtors, Pleasanton, CA) about 1 year ago

Fellow Rainers -  I must say when this post was written (very late at night) I certainly never expected a Feature much less such overwhelming response!  

I certainly appreciate the time each of you took from
your busy day to leave your input.  It seems most of us are on the same page that our business our clients come first.  Being busy in real estate is an awesome thing after the slow winter months and I must put my clients first.  Again I never want any of you to feel neglected and I will get around to commenting back as time permits.  YOU GUYS ROCK THE RAIN :)

John

Thank You, ActiveRain, Etiquette, Dilemma, John McCormack, Albuquerque, NM, Realtor, Albuquerque Homes Realty


Posted by John McCormack- AlbuquerqueHomes.com (Albuquerque Homes Realty * www.AlbuquerqueHomes.com) about 1 year ago

John,

I am going to wait by the computer until you comment on my comment......Thanks for the pretty Thank you on the above comment, I guess that will have to do for now! I am glad to hear you are busy! :) Have a fun Thursday, Barb

Posted by Barbara Le Pine - S & W Real Estate, Newport OR (S & W Real Estate, Newport, Oregon) about 1 year ago

John, when one cannot do the best thing, next best becomes the best. And despite your 'no' you did comment on comments - which is what I'd do, responding in general rather then responding to each comment.

Posted by Andover Luxury Homes For Sale Andover Real Estate (Keller Williams Realty) about 1 year ago

John

I think most do the best they can to keep up and respond to comments, comment on posts, read lots of posts. It's impossible to do it all and I suspect most folks here understand and don't have that expectation. A general thank you to all can work when timing really is short - at least people know you are thinking about their comments. I don't think anyone expects 100% - it's just not realistic.

Jeff

Posted by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Homes for Sale ~ 760-840-1360 (Solutions Real Estate (CA DRE Lic. # 01490977)) about 1 year ago

Hi John, I agree.  I try to comment also, but sometimes it is many hours before I can get to them.  I hope the AR community realizes this.

Posted by Bob Miller - The Ruiz/Miller Team Ocala & Marion County (Keller Williams Cornerstone Realty) about 1 year ago

Same here John. 

There just are not enough hours in a day. 

I value the comments to my posts and do my very best to respond to each and every one, even the ones that say nothing and repeat the same message each time the member comments. 

That said, be sure I read every one. 

Good for you.

Posted by Lenn Harley, Real Estate Broker, Virginia & Maryland (Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate) about 1 year ago

John ~ I understand your plight. With the "Selling Season" in place and activity picking up daily, there isn't enough time in the day. On some days, I too find myself in a similar situation. I found that I have had more time in the morning to jump into the rain to read posts, see how everyone is doing, and commenting on those that strike a chord. 24 Hours goes by so fast these days... John ~ It only shows you're human. :)

Posted by Jon Eliason ~ Pagosa Brokers REALTOR® (Pagosa Brokers, LLC Pagosa Springs, Colorado) about 1 year ago

John, lately I've been leaving general comments to all that visit one of my posts.  I've tried in the past responding to each, but I've simply been so busy...there really aren't enough hours in a day.  I will absolutely go to a fellow members post and leave a comment there...it may take me a day or two, but I'll get there.

Posted by Nick T Pappas - Madison and Huntsville Alabama (Assoc. Broker ABR, e-Pro, @Homes Realty, Huntsville AL) about 1 year ago

You, writing this post, reflects your thoughtfulness and sincerity. Congratulations, Mr. Ambassador, I think that describes you most adeptly!

Posted by Colorado Springs Realtor® Kim Gaston (719)661-6987 (Colorado Home Sales LLC) about 1 year ago

John - Its very understandable that you can't respond to each and every comment.   It's actually a good problem to have, it means you are selling houses.  Keep up the good work and, sell, sell, sell.

Posted by Jim Patton - Realtor , CDPE, SFR Stanislaus County Short Sale Specialist (Century 21 M&M - Central California Short Sale Specialist) about 1 year ago

John, I agree with you that it's more important to comment back than it is to respond on your blog. It benefits the person more - points - and lets them know that you are reciprocating. I have the same problem sometimes (but not as often as you :)

Sharon

Posted by Sharon Alters 904-673-2308 Fleming Island FL Real Estate (Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty) about 1 year ago

John,

I know this is a late comment, but just getting to this Daily Drop of featured posts and I have been having the same quandary.  I do see the comments as they come to my email but I agree with you and instead of wasting the time to reply I go to the commenters blog and post there.  Trying to take the time to even go back and see if someone replied to my comment took a ton of time as well. 

Great post!  I'm with you my friend and trust me, appreciate each and every comment you've left for me!!!!

Posted by DeeDee Riley El Dorado Hills Realtor (916)225-2719 (Lyon Real Estate - El Dorado Hills CA) 8 months ago

I am way way late to the party reading this, but I personally also try to comment on everyone's comments - which is easier for me because I am not quite as popular as you are!  And I don't post as frequently.  But honestly, I don't think it is bad etiquitte.  I think that it is nice for a response if a commenter has a question or a compelling statement that really needs a response, but I don't think it is always necessary to individually respond to each and every comment if they are just agreements with the post or something like that.  You are a great ARer John.  We all love ya! -Kasey

Posted by Kasey & John Boles Boise, Meridian, Ada/Canyon/Gem Counties (Jon Gosche Real Estate, Boise ID) 8 months ago

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